I am not a boy. I am not a girl. I am a femme boygirl. My pronouns are ze/hir/hirs, although I accept they/them/theirs if that's easier for you. I am trans*. I am genderqueer.
I am kinky. I am sexually submissive. I like to be ordered around, manhandled, and hurt. I am still a feminist. I just find pleasure in a different variety of sensations.
I am attracted to men, women, and people of various other gender identities and presentations. I am pansexual. I am primarily attracted to femmes and androgynes of any gender.
I am Pagan. I am Wiccan. I believe in magic. I observe the changing seasons. I worship the Goddess and God and Ze Who is Both and Neither. I worship love.
I am lacto-ovo vegetarian, meaning I don't eat meat, including fish, but I still eat dairy and eggs. I consume dairy and eggs for personal health needs. I don't consume meat for primarily ethical reasons, as I believe the suffering of animals deserves moral consideration.
I am mad. I have Borderline Personality Disorder. I have severe, chronic Major Depression. I have Anorexia Nervosa. I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder. I have a "history" of self-injury. I have attempted suicide and I have been hospitalized more than once.
I am a person.
well, i don’t know the girl in the “don’t support fag marriages” picture, but i did come across this:
and i feel really bad that she’s getting so much hate for a simple misunderstanding. i’m not tumblr famous or anything, so this probably won’t go too well, but i’m trying to get the word out because i feel bad for this girl. thanks
Signal boost the fuck out of this, someone who didn’t do anything wrong doesn’t deserve hate.
You know, a few months ago this dude friend of mine showed up to hang out with me all dejected. Over a couple of drinks he explained his long face — earlier that night, he’d been walking down the street behind this really cute girl, and when she looked back at him over her shoulder, he thought it was in interest and smiled at her. Now, this guy is tall and skinny, can most commonly be found in glasses and t-shirts scrawled across with math jokes, is kind to animals, considers himself a feminist. What he doesn’t consider himself is threatening, so he was surprised, confused, and even hurt by what happened next: the girl in front of him responding to his called greeting of, “Nice skirt,” by taking off down the darkened street in a dead run.
"Yeah," I said, "she probably thought you were going to rape her."
"But that’s not fair,” he said. “I’m a good person; I’d never rape anyone! How could she think that? She doesn’t even know me.”
Out here in the wilds of the internet, I often find myself making arguments about shit like feminism and rape culture unilaterally. For one thing, there’s so much (like, so much) out there arguing unilaterally against this shit that I feel it’s necessary; for another thing, ‘round these parts there’s a lot of people jumping to hostility when it’s painfully clear they don’t have a handle on all the facts. But I’m more lenient with the people in my real life, especially dudes like the one mentioned above. I’m willing to extend to them a patience that I wouldn’t with strangers on the internet, because they matter to me, and it matters to me that they understand. So when my friend sat there that night, whining over his beer and responding to my attempted explanations with, “But I’d love it if a girl smiled at me on the street, or even catcalled at me! Fuck, even if a dude did it, I’d be flattered,” I decided to spend some time thinking about how to clear things up for him. It took awhile, but I finally came up with a metaphor to get the job done:
Consider the bank.
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If you use the term “bihet” with anything but derision you can unfollow me and also choke on a cinderblock <3
Preferably to death. <3333
I concur. If you think bisexuals are somehow privileged for being mislabeled straight (when in reality we get a ton of shit from ALL monosexuals, including queer ones. Some can be worse than straight ones), then fuck you so hardens go away.
a relationship will not cure your issues, no matter how hard young adult books and films try to push that notion on us. if you have depression or bipolar or anxiety or whatever, getting into a relationship isn’t going to cure that or make it go away. person with illness + relationship = ill person in a relationship. please don’t put all of your focus on finding someone to fix you, focus on fixing yourself the right way.
I wish someone had told my ex that. He left basically because he thought being with him would somehow make me better and when that didn’t happen… He couldn’t deal. The stated reason for both times I’ve been dumped. I’ve realized I have to explicitly tell partners that my mental illnesses won’t magical disappear because we’re in love.